Some wants, some needs.

Some wants, some needs.

Some are trying their luck, and some are working hard. 

Some are waking up with a new to-do list, and some are aimless.

Some are eagerly waiting for their days, and some have given up.

Some are worrying and some are working

Some need motivation, and some are inspiring.

Some need attention, and some are pretending.

Some need family, while some need privacy.

Some want magic, while some are creating it.

Some need comfort, while some need complexity.

Some need peace, while some want to pretend to be at ease.

Some want to cry aloud, and some need peace around.

Some need a motive, while some are just in search of a topic.

Some are evil, and most are devils.

Some want love, and some want just a life.

Some want to escape reality, while some are living in fantasies.

Some want time to stop for them while some are controlling it.

There are so many lovely, unique people living around the globe, and you are one of them. Everyone has something or the other going on in their lives. Don't sweat over small things. Just keep going!

-Bhupinder Kaur

Life and life span is in our hand.

 Death is the ultimate truth, and humans are mortal. Everyone knows that, right? This is something no one can escape from, be it the richest-wealthiest person on Earth or any roadside beggar. No matter how good medical services are, everyone has to die one day, that's for sure.

We can't control our birth place, birth time, day or date, or not even our parents. But what we can control is, our life and life span. Life span is the number of years between your birth and death, and that can be controlled.

Yeah, you read it right. WE CAN CONTROL OUR LIFE SPANS, rather, WE CAN ADJUST OUR DEATHS. We, humans, are homeothermous, warm-blooded animals; we can regulate our body temperature. We, humans, have THE most developed brains that can adapt to and solve complex problems. 

Mother Earth is being governed and used by us humans, that too, both brutally and goodly. We are supreme. But some of us take these evolutionary benefits for granted. 

Some people die suddenly and abruptly, leaving their loved ones, stressed and guessing the cause of their deaths. And honestly, it feels miserable, listening to the left ones, complaining.

It feels like one invites his or her death by not paying attention to his or her health and habits when they are alive. Well, this sounds rude, but this is true, if not wholly, then say partially.

Daily or even twice a week exercising, simply walking or jogging, meditating, trying to have a balanced diet, taking care of hygiene, preventing vector growth, proper sanitation, and vaccination can help one to increase their life span.

And just as the research-based study says, 'Regular physical activity is associated with an increase in life expectancy by 0.4 to 6.9 years', and the famous kindergarten proverb, 'An apple a day keeps the doctor away' we must take care of ourselves, move a bit, and have nutritious food, to not only safe gaurd and extend our lives, but also take care of our loved ones, as far as we can.

Awaaz # - 01

 Hi!👋 today i will just write without any inspiration..no particulars..

Aapko pta hai? Khuda ki sabse pyari nehmat betiyaan hoti hai👧🏼..Maa ki dua hmesha safal hoti hai🤱🏻 aur behen ke pyaar se pyaari khushnasibi aur koi nahi👩‍👦..similarity?..all are females.

Girls..Hum ladkiyaan, bahut soft hoti hai 😊,jaldi gussa ho jati hai 😣,ek dum decisions le leti hai aur fir pachtati hai 😧😕,bhai se ladai kr khud muh phulakr beth jati hai 😓 to vahi kabhi kabhi sochti baad mein hai aur bol pehle deti hai 😅,papa ki ladli 👨‍👧to hoti hi hai par mummy ki dant se drti bhi hai 😨.

Hmse koi pyaar se baat kre to hum to jese phule naa samaye 🤩..koi help krde to uske liye respect 🙂..aur koi panga le le humse to hum upar upar se to hus dengi 😁 but usse chhodegi nahi 😤..agar galti krde to sorry bolna kisko aur kaha hai pehle sochengi🙈..kyuki hum kabhi kabhi apni galti accept nhi krti 😛..koi accha lge to dil mein kisi kone mein usse hmesha ke liye rkhengi 🤗. .birthdays,anniversaries,graduations..bade occasion pe koi suprise de de to bhut khush ho jati hai hum..

Ladies..Haa! pta hai ki hmara koi ghar nahi hota but ghar hmare bina hai rota..chhote the tab duniya bahut badi thi..aasmaan ko chuhne ki khwahish thi 🌌  jab bde ho gye to duniya shayad bccho 🤱🏻 aur rasoi-daftaar mein hi simat gyi..bahut saari khwahishein chhut gyi..bhut kuch aacha bhi hua yehi sochkr sabhi khwahishien dbba di🙃..bcche to khub sapne dikhate hai.baithe baithe hi saari duniya🌍 ghuma dete hai par jab khane ka samay aata hai..vo duniya ke chakkar wala badal udd jata hai☁️..ab aasmaan chuhne ki khwahish nhi hai ab to bus khush rhna aur khush rkhna hi jarurat hai 😊..

Grannies..Mai khushnaseeb to bhut 😇..beta-beti ke bcche jo dekh payi hu 👩‍❤️‍👨..inki shaadiyaan bhi dekhli..bahu buri nahi hai bus uske vichaar alag hai..mai chup rhti hu 🤐..kya pta kab saans ruk jaye 😵..ab zindagi ki khatti-meethi yadein samatkr nikal jana chahti hu ussi aasmaan mein jiski kabhi khwahish kiya krti thi 😊..

- Bhupinder Kaur

Day 6 Review helps!

 Hi there! Today, I was really happy because of two things that happened. Firstly, when I checked my phone after waking up, early morning, okhay! I mean at 7 am..I was having a new follower at Pratilipi and secondly, I got thumbs up for the last two blog post I published by a published author, at one of the sites, I shared blog post at..

I was amazed and surprised too, when I found a review from an real published author. I found the above image under all the posts she made..ofcourse, she also want her and her grand father's books to get reads on amazon and was sharing there, but this is something everyone would agree with..

It really feels good..whenever someone reviews or rates my writing, I too feel so happy..everyone doing something, loves to get appreciated..its true, it take less than five minutes, sometimes more, to review someone's content, but it really helps..

The reader not only helps the author or writer to get how his or her audience is finding his content, but also helps him mentally, he is motivated to write more and yes, eager to improve himself in order to content his readers..

Even I can relate to this, I mean, like I'm no one compared to all those famous published authors, yet I feel the same..whenever there is a comment, which seldom is, hehe! I feel a different type of energy boost and happiness..

All in all, appreciating someone doing something and putting efforts make the person feel happy..one can be the reason for someone's smile and help them grow.

Day 3 Getting stuck while writing..is that okay?

 Hlo guyz! Hope you are doing good..I write everyday..I mean I try to..I had already found my way to get rid of negativity by forming my own world, with my own characters and I love that world of mine..where I'm the creator..

I was a beginner once, I think I'm now too, but there is a change, I have got few to ask me to write next..yeah! they are few, but they are..and I'm really grateful for that..

But today, I felt stuck..I do had my planning and character evolvement ready before I started writing one of my college-life based comedy novel, but putting in words and feeling it as a reader disappointed me..

I did write something new, instead of continuing the former one but haven't added anymore to my novel..I did get a follower today and she wanted me to continue the one which I got stuck on..

I felt like, I shouldn't dishearten her but whats going on, she don't know that..of course! I feel good when someone, who haven't seen me, never met me, want me to progress just by reading my words that too fictioness..

To stay in form, as I said, I did started something new, but won't let it cross my novel..I thought, instead of giving up and feeling stuck, I must move on for a bit of time and then continue with all new inspiration..

If you do write, you can relate to what I'm saying, no!

Its okay to feel stuck at times, be it your life or writing, what matters is how you charge yourself up again for the same which made you feel stuck..instead of sitting idle or keeping focus on the hurdle, ignore it for sometime and then come again with a bit of new experience and mindset..re chatting yourself is must at times..

I'm sure, I'll never dishearten any of my reader and gear up again in few days with my novel..even if there is one reader waiting..but there IS..and that's what someone who write wants..😊

The photo above, the one I added is of Shizuka from a ghibli movie, 'Whispers of the Heart'..one of my hostel mate adviced me to watch whenever I manage to, as it was based on a emerging writer..and I did that..

Day 2 Its all in our hands.

 Ever thought of growing up what you are today? Ever thought that you would be like what you are now..the way you behave..the way you talk and walk..we just grew up, no? 

But yeah! At every important milestone of our lifeline, we made some decisions..decisions which were worth it, worth mentioning and worth remembering..

Every time we face something new to decide upon, we act differently..sometimes, we just decided with all assurance within seconds and sometimes we get confused, we find it difficult..

No matter what happens then or now, all we must keep in mind is that one decision, be it a minor one or a major one, it will affect us for a long time..

It matters..how and where the single decision would take you..makes a big difference..so its all in our hands.

-Bhupinder Kaur

Day 1 Won't add anything to the 'Never Happening Wish List' 😊

 Hi there! Yesterday just after the post, I stepped out of the faded room of mine, honestly, its like after 2 months since we shifted to a new place..people do exist, haha!!

There was a couple preparing for their kid's birthday party and other kids was whispering to each other..roaming around for what they were going to gift the birthday girl with..when are they going to get in, is mamma going to accompany them, will they get the balloons and all those curious smiles were lovely..

For a moment, I wished to join those strangers but you know, I wasn't invited..they didn't even know me..I remembered when we were asked to go to someone's party, I would always be the one to refuse the very first among my siblings and rather enjoy a movie at home or simply sleep..so boring!

And now when I am all grown up, I want to get into someone's party..dance and sing..irritate someone or do some nasty stuff and then get embarassed, we people, to act cool or sophisticated, actually miss all those things that normally kids do..and so was me..

You know, going to someone else's home and then pick something from the serving had been my dream, although I hate when any kid do that but that's just a wish..acting stubborn before someone to get something done just like those mama's boy and daddy's girls do..getting hurt and cry aloud to get attention, I never did that all..I wasn't made to..but yeah, I don't even like that..

But nevermind, its gone already but we can make amends anytime, no! Living in the moment is what everyone advise and we too know well, but just for the sake of the way we will be seen by people around us, we opt to act good, suppressing our happiness..

Sometimes parents too make their kids grow up so fine and make them behave so well, especially, the strict parents (just like ours)  that the kids someday in future wish to have some memories of them being idiot..although their etiquettes are there deep in their blood, but the wish is wish..

Lets keep it simple, we know well..no one is going to remember us..no one is going to keep a note for what we did on this day or that minute and no one is going to ever get the time back for us..so better to do whatever you want to..

The thing you would suppress today would add to your 'never happening wish list' and asusual you will be boring and all we need is to live once and that too fully..at tue end we can't count our never sparkled stars..

Daily Journaling 😊

 

Hlo readers! I hope you are doing good. Well, after a long long break, I had again picked up a writing challenge and that will be pretty cool..DAILY PUBLIC JOURNALING! 

Yes, I know journals are meant to be private, but you know what? I had been doing it from very long and again this time, Just like the '10-Days Writing Challenge' I took writing Letters on some prompts from a random picture, I got from search..I want this time again to practice a bit of consistency..atleast in writing my stuffs..

Yeah, so public journaling would be fun, It would be like daily vlogging, not with a camera but a pen..oh! Typing keyboard of my smartphone..

Just because, I made it public, it became special so yeah, I would be consistent in that way..would focus more on needful and ofcourse, I seldom lie so just for writing truth at the end of the day, I would be doing necessary, no!

Someone suggested me to start journaling to relief stress..I do it but not on daily basis..but now I think I will be regular..And can also grow my blog..

So I think, this would help me or someone around the world as I write social..I write observing..I write nature..I write motivation..I write inspiration and ofcourse, I too write Fiction!!

STAY TUNED!!

-Bhupinder Kaur