Letter to my past self..

 

A Letter to my past self..

     Dear Anu, 

     You are really really really cute, chubby, lovely, and precious. You are the apple of everyone. Everyone loves you, and no one judges you. You are not that fat, and one day you'll get slim-trim beauty. You do love animals, don't stop yourself if you want to touch them or talk to them.

You are not born to be an example, you are unique in yourself. Everything gets in place, it takes time so don't be upset always. You are highly sensitive and sophisticated, you will definitely get friends in future.

Maths will be your favourite subject and you will even fight for it. Your siblings are not that bad, you are still the same for your parents. Don't be scared of dark, one day you will love to be in it. Play as much as you can, no one is going to remember your mistakes, but you'll definitely miss them. 

You will be papa's lioness, no matter how much you try to be like a boy, you are going to be loved like a queen. Do dress like girls too, or else you will be uncomfortable when you will be asked to. Don't take so much pressure, don't try to be ideal for your parents, you are already one. 

Smile and talk to everyone and do mistakes, do whatever you want to, be it playing in mud, going out with friends in park or picnic, losing a race, do it because in future you will say, "I feel like I was born sophisticated and simple"🙂.

First Blog Anniversary

The day before yesterday was the anniversary of this blog..the first anniversary. I started this blog just with the hope that it may add happiness and a bit of satisfaction to my journey but everything remained the same. I know for making a change you have to post daily or at least once a week, but I was unable to. I won't be making any resolution because it will be useless. 

The only thing that changed is time, I am still standing in the same Career Point..still preparing for the Neet examination for the next year.. facing criticism, still taking comments and looking at my friend's and classmates' progress, but I feel happy for them honestly as they are doing something, while in my case I do start a YouTube channel. Yes, it was time when I uploaded about 3 videos a day. entire editing, and recording, backgrounds were prepared by me only but now everything has changed.

I started with two new novels at Wattpad and Pratilipi, but that doesn't matter as it won't make any difference. I am always busy with conflicts in my world and the surprise is that they are not mine. There are always other conflicts that engage most of my time as if I were a legal advisor. I do have all the ideas and chapters prepared for my novels already but typing them is something I seldom get ample time for, I mean I never can prioritise my time for doing my stuff.

I wish everything to sort as soon as possible, what's going on behind the scene is still to be uncovered. It will always be a secret as my regular reader would have got an idea of who am I, and if I like to tell my troubles or not. Being optimistic is something you have to practice and that is what try to do..Hope has a lot of power or else we would have panicked by the fact that Earth rotates and revolves.

Stay Happy!

Stay Blessed!

Stay Tuned

Second 'No-confidence motion' against the Modi government!

 Second 'No-confidence motion' against the Modi government!

by Bhupinder Kaur on July 26

Lok Sabha speaker, Om Birla, accepted notice for no confidence motion against the majority on Wednesday 26 July, moved by Congress' Lok Sabha Deputy and North East leader Gaurav Gagoi, particularly, against PM Modi to force him to speak on Manipur violence.

On the 5th day of monsoon budget session 2023, I.N.D.I.A. (Indian National Development Inclusive Alliances), formed by 26 opposition parties earlier this month, attacked the Modi government for a serious answer at Manipur violence required on behalf of the entire country, as being portrayed by Congress leaders. The motion was on desk at 9:20 a.m. which will be taken care of within 10 days according to the rule 198 of the Rules of Procedure and Conduct of Lok Sabha.

Although Lok Sabha got adjourned twice in a day with barely any discussion on the major point of 'Manipur violence', lots of points of view from both the opposition and ruling was seen. ‘PM Modi has forgotten Manipur..,’ Congress MP Gaurav Gogoi, who moved the notice, said. Many leaders including Congress MP Karti Chidambaram,BSP MP Malook Nagar,Congress MP Pramod Tiwari, BRS MP Nama Nageswara Rao, AAP MP Raghav Chadha, and many others attacked the Modi Government for Modi not breaking his silence on Manipur violence. BJP leaders, including Amit, Shah Smriti Irani and more came forward to counter-attack for I.N.D.I.A. while the speaker said, “I will inform you about the schedule for the discussion.” 

The ruling government is enjoying a support of at least 332 lawmakers at Lok Sabha and have no threat from confidence motion but the need of 'Prime Minister of our Country' for breaking his silence on Manipur where a large population has been killed in violence and also many people had displaced from their own houses because of the ethnic clashes between the majority, Meiti group and tribal kuki minority, is necessary. Above all, the shameful incident that took place in early May, and got viralled via video had outraged people around the globe, where two women were paraded naked by a mob, because of which, it became an utmost important topic for the country's leader to talk about.

This no confidence motion is going to be the second motion against Modi in his tenure of nine years. Earlier in 2018, a lawmaker moved a motion for 'granting special category status to Andhra Pradesh state' which was defeated after 12 hours of debate. It will be interesting to note how this motion is going to act on the future rule of Prime Minister Modi and when and how this will be tackled.

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फिल्म ओप्पेन्हेइमेर

 फिल्म ओप्पेन्हेइमेर के दृश्य से क्यों हैं भारतीय धार्मिक समुदाय को नाराजगी?

भूपेंद्र कौर, 26- जुलाई-2023

हाल ही में रिलीज हुई इंटरनेशनल फ़िल्म 'ओप्पेन्हेइमेर' कॉफ़ी चर्चा में हैं। जहां एक तरफ ओप्पेन्हेइमेर फ़िल्म ने विश्व भर में 174 मिलियन डॉलर की कमाई की वहीं दूसरी तरफ 21 जुलाई को 'केंद्रीय फिल्म प्रमाणन बोर्ड' के द्वारा सेंसर की गई 'ओप्पेन्हेइमेर' को भारत के सोशल मीडिया प्लेटफॉर्म व हिंदू समुदाय के लोगों की नाराजगी का सामना करना पड़ा। 

दुनिया के जाने माने डायरेक्टर, क्रिस्टोफर नोलन कि यह फिल्म 100 मिलियन डॉलर के बजट पर बनाई गई है, जिसमें सिलियन मुरफी लीड रोल निभाते हुए नजर आ रहे हैं यह फिल्म प्रसिद्ध फिजिसिस्ट, जे रॉबर्टओप्पेन्हेइमेर के जीवन पर आधारित है। ओप्पेन्हेइमेर, मैनहट्टन प्रोजैक्ट के लीडर थे, जिन्होंने द्वितीय विश्व युद्ध के दौरान परमाणु बम विकसित किया था, इसी वजह से उन्हें 'फादर ऑफ़ एटम बम' भी कहा जाता है। ओप्पेन्हेइमेर, ना सिर्फ फिजिक्स, केमिस्ट्री व अन्य विज्ञान के क्षेत्रों के ज्ञाता थे बल्कि उन्हें संस्कृत भाषा में भी बहुत रूचि थी, जिसके कारण उन्होंने स्वयं की संस्कृत सीखी थी व वह भागवत गीता से बड़े प्रभावित थे। 

'ओप्पेन्हेइमेर' फ़िल्म के एक दृश्य में ओप्पेन्हेइमेर के किरदार को भगवद गीता पढ़ते समय शारीरिक संबंध बनाते हुए दिखाया गया हैं, जिसके कारण कई धार्मिक अधिकारी अभी भी इस बात से नाराज थे कि केंद्रीय फिल्म प्रमाणन बोर्ड ने फिल्म के इस हिस्से को भारतीय सिनेमाघरों में प्रदर्शित करने की अनुमति क्यूँ दी। उस दृश्य में दिखाई देने वाली नग्नता को 'सी जी आई ड्रेस' का उपयोग करके सेंसर किया गया था और धर्मग्रंथ की हार्ड कॉपी के कवर को भारतीय संस्करण में धुंधला कर दिया गया था, परंतु फिर भी कहीं हिंदू समुदाय के लोग इस बात से नाखुश है कि भागवत गीता की अवहेलना की गई।

बताया जाता है कि अपने ही आविष्कार, एटम बम की जांच के दौरान हुए ब्लास्ट से हैरान रह गए ओप्पेन्हेइमेर ने भगवत गीता एक पंक्ति अंग्रेजी में कहीं, "नाउ आई ऍम बिकम डेथ, दी डिस्ट्रॉयर ऑफ़ वर्ल्डस" जिसे उन्होंने (फिल्म के अनुसार) तब भी कहा जब वह अपनी प्रेमिका के साथ शारीरिक संबंध बनाते हुए दिखे। केंद्रीय मंत्री, सूचना एवं प्रसारण मंत्रालय, श्री अनुराग सिंह ठाकुर ने केंद्रीय फिल्म प्रमाणन बोर्ड द्वारा जवाबदेही की मांग की है और यह भी कहा कि जो कोई भी इस फिल्म को मंजूरी देने के लिए जिम्मेदार है उसके खिलाफ कड़ी कार्रवाई की जाएगी। 

बता दें कि ना सिर्फ हिंदुस्तान के सोशल मीडिया व मंत्रालयों द्वारा 'ओप्पेन्हेइमेर' फिल्म से असन्तुष्टि देखने को मिली है बल्कि स्वयं सैम ऑल्टमैन,ओपन आई सीईओ व एलोन मस्क के भी यही विचार हैं। ऑल्टमैन को फ़िल्म से यह आशा थी कि आने वाली पीढ़ी भी फिजिसिस्ट बनने के लिए प्रेरित होगी, परंतु शायद फिल्म वह करने में असफल रही। बात अगर फिल्म में ओप्पेन्हेइमेर की निजी जिंदगी, उनके विचार व मैनहट्टन प्रोजैक्ट के विवरण की की जाए तो यह फिल्म वाकई काबिले तारीफ है।

इस बात में कोई दो राय नहीं है कि, नागासाकी-हिरोशिमा कि दुर्घटना के बाद ओप्पेन्हेइमेर अपने ही अविष्कार से नाराज थे व उन्होंने एडवर्ड टेलर के अविष्कार 'हाइड्रोजन बम' को विकसित करने के विपक्ष में भी अपना मत रखा था। आज दुनिया के 9 बड़े देशो के पास एटम बम व अन्य न्यूक्लियर वेपन है, जिसमें चीन,उत्तर कोरिया, इजराइल, फ्रांस,पाकिस्तान, रूस, यूनाइटेड किंगडम, अमेरिका व हिंदुस्तान भी शामिल है। सौभाग्य की बात यह है कि पिछले 80 सालों से आज तक कोई भी हिरोशिमा-नागासाकी जैसी दूसरी दुर्घटना नहीं हुई है।

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WHY DOES CM PUNK HATE COLT CABANA?

 WHY DOES CM PUNK HATE COLT CABANA?

                            -By Bhupinder Kaur (Friday, July 14, 2023)

World Wrestling Entertainment (WWE), a package full of action and thrill, from sports & entertainment to the source of table gossip and valuable yet geeky memes, here we can find everything. From sisters (Bellas), brothers (USOs), families (Mysterios), friends to rivals, we get everything just on a single platform. No doubt, WWE is loved by all age groups around the globe and has got more than 95,700,000 subscribers1 at its official youtube channel. 

Not only Avengers-Thanos or Vladimir-Zelenskyy, but there are many other rivalries too, that are worth-mentioning, at the least for those who are crazy fans of WWE and you are one of them, right? The rivalry rather a 'friendship turned rivalry' relationship of CM Punk and Colt Cabana came to limelight in 2014 , which eventually led CM Punk to quit WWE. These two WWE stars started all the way from Chicago in 19992 and after facing so many ups and downs in professional and personal life both, are together now, NO! not together like friends or colleagues but just as employees..employees working under the same banner promotion, All Elite Wrestling (AEW). If graphing the relationship of these two AEW wrestlers, the key stages would be - Royal Rumble 2014..Dr. Amann..podcast..WWE Vs Punk & Cabana then Punk Vs Cabana then finally, in the present year PIZZA!

Both Punk and Cabana got professional wrestling training from the same coaches (Ace Steel, Danny Dominion, Kevin Quinn)3 together in 1999 and then in consecutive years, they both appeared in more than 30 matches (15 as Tag-team)4 and won many. It was January 2014 when Punk left WWE after the 2014 Royal Rumble, insulted HHH in Vince McMohan's office out of frustration. He, in the Cabana's podcast, The Art of Wrestling (October 16, 2014), stated that mistreatment, bad bookings for main event Wrestlemania, injuries and fractures being the reasons for leaving WWE along with adding the post-treatment by WWE, towards its wrestlers. Things got heated up in February 2015, when Dr. Chris Amann, filed a defamation case against both Punk and Cabana, as Punk stated the fact that he would have died if his Methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA) staph infection would have been taken care of by Dr. Amann and Cabana being the podcaster. Cause WWE physician wasn't able to convince the jurors that Punk tried to defame him, the lost and this got a lot of attention, once the post event came to scene i.e. Caban Vs Punk.

As the records of both the wrestlers' show for Punk being better than Cabana in his career and status, he earlier agreed to pay WWE's fees for Cabana also but later denied and asked for $250,000 from him, the lawsuits began as both Cabana and Punk sued each other one after the other because of money matters. By September, the dispute dissolved and both Punk and Cabana never appeared together. In February 2020, Cabana signed to AEW and in 2021, Punk also signed to AEW. There was no special news regarding them after the case. It was in All Out 2022 press conference when Punk mocked at Cabana for having a bank account shared with his mother and the latest was in the present year, 2023 when Dave Meltzer on Wrestling Observer Radio revealed that Punk was angry at Cabana because he went with Neville, Sami Zayn and Kevin Owens for having a 'pizza'5 which was truly unexpectable. 

At present, both the AEW stars are stable in their career. Well said, the best enemy can be your best friend, and so is their case. Time heals everything, maybe in the future both these stars appear together again as friends or partners or it might be possible for this cold war to continue.

References:-

1 : www.youtube.com

2 : wikipedia

3 : wikipedia

4 : www.cagematch.net

5 : www.twitter.com (source provided)

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John Morrison Calls Out Undefeated YouTube Boxer After Winning Pro Debut With Devastating KO

 John Morrison Calls Out Undefeated YouTube Boxer After Winning Pro Debut With Devastating KO

-Bhupinder Kaur (Saturday, July 15, 2023)

Three time WWE Intercontinental Champion, six-time Tag Team Champion in WWE and World Champion in many different wrestling promotion banners and much more, John Randall Hennigan (John Morrison), recently made his debut in convincing fashion on Saturday, April 15 in Florida.

Harley Morenstein, being his opponent at Creator Clash 2, got knocked out by Johnny Creator (Morrison) in the first two rounds and lost the match after Technical knockout (TKO) in the third round. After the match, Morrison called out the undefeated social media boxers including Logan Paul and Jake Paul and finally challenged the youtube boxer, KSI.

Morrison said, "When I’m thinking about who to call out, Jake? Logan? No, Jake got beat, Logan got beat by KSI, which is why I’m going to put KSI on blast right now". He also added his perception regarding WWE and boxing, "Boxing is different from wrestling and stunt choreo. I know how hard I worked. I know how hard Harley worked. I have all the respect in the world for that man".

Along with praising Harley, his opponent, he added and presented his thoughts on the unbeatable influencer boxers, "But there are some influencer boxers I have zero respect for. Jake Paul, Logan Paul. They make me sick. Overnight tough guys. The entire Misfits boxings". 

KSI, the YouTuber boxer and Morrison, both had created their names after getting through much at different matches in life, and now are popular in many. Morrison started as a wrestler in WWE and also gained respect by many in boxing career, while on the other hand, Olajide Olayinka Williams "JJ" Olatunji, better known by his YouTube channel's name, KSI is co-founder and member of the British group 'sideman' along with being the CEO of Misfits Boxing and the co-owner of Prime Hydration, XIX Vodka and a restaurant chain known as Sides, he had gained much popularity at a young age of 30 years only. He has got about 24 million subscribers on his main channel and 16 million subscribers on his second channel, which is a true accomplishment.

Both the boxers, Morrison and KSI are well engaged in their own lives and both have a huge fan base. How and When, both the superstars are going to face each other is still left for the future.

References:-

1: www.wikipedia.com

2: www.sportkeeda.com

3: www.youtube.com

4: https://www.mmafighting.com/2023/4/15/23685068/video-former-wwe-wrestler-john-morrison-calls-out-ksi-knocking-out-harley-morenstein-creator-clash-2 

5: www.socialblade.com

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Everything around money 😏

 

Started from barter system and then to coins and notes, oh lord! Our world revolves around Sun and rotate about its axis, this is what geography says..what the domineering human actually revolve and rotate about is MONEY..POWER..WEALTH..

Important but not so important as Family, good but not so good as Nature, powerful but not so much powerful as Love, needed but not that much as Oxygen..

Values and Behaviour is what going to end even after your end, not the wealth or materialistic pleasures..

Showing off to those people who will one day look at their wrist watches for your ceremony to get over, is foolishness, no?

-Bhupinder Kaur

Would there be?

 If you are a selenophile and whenever you look at that charming moon you love the most, you think that there might be someone around this globe looking at this little one just like i am..

He/She would be in any problem or would be way too happy, may be he would be thinking like me only or would be just gazing at moon mindlessly like I use to do..

Would he also be a crazy one to get pics of this shiny one every night..would he also gets upset when moon is not there in the sky..

Would he also sometimes stay with the brightest star just to make him feel good..would he be there standing at the corner of balcony or terrace and thinking of his future one..

Would he be also wandering just like I do..would he be also there sitting on any bench with tears in eyes and talking to moon, would he be also there who breathe in the cold breeze and look up at night just to clear ot the clutter..

Must be there somewhere, someone crazy just like me, who would have his own world up there in sky and embrace it every night regardless of heavy clouds or shinning stars..

Just a wish to make for him/her, may he/she keep smiling and embrace themselves just like moon does..reuniting each time just to get more charming and strengthening..

-Bhupinder Kaur

Why!?

I always thought why am I always forced to act sophisticated..study hard and be a doctor..this profession was chosen by my parents when I was not even fertilised..God knows how they implanted the seed of doctor and studies in me.

I remember I had never played with any dolls or girlish toys rather with trucks, buses, or rocket models. they never made me feel like I am a princess to them..it's like they grew me up to become a doctor.

Like all kids, I wanted to be a lot of..in 3rd standard I desperately wanted to grow up and have a pistol and be on duty just like Abhijeet-Daya-Purvi-Freddy sir

Around 5th I wanted to join the army looking at the well-dressed uniforms inspired me to study hard and start exercising..uh!! for growing up a little taller and losing some layers. I remember that 5 am when I used to step on the rooftop in an entirely smoggy air and start skipping..when sometimes it was dark with the e moon above and sometimes the moon and sky crossing each other..

Around 6th when my scores in maths increased a bit..honestly it was the first time in my finals that I got above 50 per cent in maths..I wanted to be an astronaut..all those rockets and toy planes were again on my shelf..and space stories came in handy..

When I started cycling in 8th..yeah! that's true bicycle was a dream for me..coz every time my parents step into any mall or toyshop they would pick a doctor's set..and I being an obedient one never asked them for anything coz they got their answer, "Love! You have to be a doctor one day, study hard and stay away from all those which can distract you"..

So when I started cycling..fixing mine as well as others' chains and secretly turning my father's engineering registers made me explore more and more, with increasing curiosity I learnt the entire engine's mechanism by reading and scanning those figures which were faint yellow..it was the day when I just helped someone with his car which let me go crazy with automobile..my maths was improved so I thought to be an automobile engineer..

While my imagination and aspirations like all other kids kept on changing but the very fact that my parents had already decided my future wasn't gone out coz it always surfaced..be it a financial matter or any house gathering "Doctor" was always gonna come..

It was not like I never wanted to be a player..but the very fact of my childhood stature couldn't be ignored..not letting your kids go out and play some rough-smooth games will make them obese..when I lost some weight and got a few inches too..I started playing but that too in school which was a bit of luck by chance..40 minutes was too short..

Though my parents brought me badminton fortunately being elder always results in sin..balls and rackets were always brought for me as a gift but as usual they were used and destroyed both by my siblings only..though I won some medals and certificates in sports but that excitement was sooner or later overlooked by me only coz of my ultimate future..

Though it was 9th only but nearer to boards so I was restricted from playing and participating in any debate or doing any mischief along with my classmates..coz I was never made to feel like a girl I became a girl with having the interest of boys..tomboy.. huh!

Though I have to show myself as a traditional sophisticated one only I knew the child living in me..I did a lot of crazy stuff with girls of my girls..I was always the only girl standing with boys for punishment or included in a mess..From secretly tying up the tails of two girls to pouring black ink on the desk of a chair or adjusting the compass under the chair all those highly.. top-level irritating things..

The point came when I had to cross paths with my parents and that was coz of MATHS..I liked maths rather I love it..though i wasn't aware of what the next level content books be I still wanted maths as my main subject the fact that I had to take BIOLOGY was there..though my parents were not in favour of me taking maths still, I took Maths..I mean Both Maths and Biology..

In the entire session of 11th and 12th..even after the board registration, they wanted me to leave maths and by that time I would have explored a lot of stuff from different engineering shorts..I mean from the library or newspaper and even television, the moment I got something I used to take a note and all in all I had much in my head but it went all vain..

As soon as my result came, my parents asked me to sit for a medical exam..

It's not like I didn't fight for my interest or whatsoever the words would be..but in the end as usual, I had to continue with my parent's decision..becoming an example for my siblings had always been something pinching my mind coz they weren't planned nor they were controlled..the difference was just like heaven and hell but nevermind I love them.

It was when I listened to my grandpa collecting his memories and talking about me..I realised that I was on the right track.."You use to get your injection filled with water and countlessly pick me up after wearing my white shirt, you always wanted to change your grandma's teeth coz she shouts a lot, on every Sunday we all had to act like patients for you, a four-year-old..you are the only one who has ever asked me so many questions..at the time I have to distract you when I was unable to answer..and you know what?" he asked while I was dumbstruck..

"Naah" with a short pause I answered with curiosity.."You wanted me and your father to give money to those who lived in slums for making their homes and living and when we refused..you my love announced climbing on that table, stuttering that you are not gonna give us a single coin from your money and when we asked for what reason you said to give it to those who lived in slums, though we all laughed on your act your thought of helping needy motivated us to lead you to the same path and fulfil all your dreams. Pass me that photo, hmmm, this is your photo see!" my grandpa showed my photo, a very rough yet watchable one, I was looking cute in the oversized shirt and the way I was standing on the table with both my hands on the waist made me love myself..

"Okay! give it back, go and sleep" he took that photo from me when I was still admiring myself..though I came to my room with a smile the words of my grandpa were roaming in my mind. I didn't notice when I started crying but the night felt too long..collecting all those memories of maa-paa I was somehow disappointed with myself only..I had a golden heart at the age of just 4 and now when I was 18 I went selfish and always cursed everyone..uhh!!

Though it was a regret-cum-realisation it acted like a booster dose for me..becoming a doctor was not only my parents but also my dream..I do realise that though I got fascinated by many others I never refused the question of becoming a doctor..

I slept late at night but the next morning, it was like a new life, a new chapter has to begin yet.

-Bhupinder Kaur

F̤e̤a̤r̤ o̤f̤ l̤o̤s̤i̤n̤g̤ 🥺

 

"Death is the ultimate end" 

I truly believe these words of mine..honestly this is one of those many quotes stored in my diary from the age of tender..

I had always excepted all those fire balls and flower petals thrown towards me either by destiny or somehow my own deeds..

But you know what? No matter how calmly we face/solve any issue, how sophisticated and practical we are..the fear of losing, those who are close to our heart is something that can easily get any person (be it a highly highly practical or sophisticated one) lose his common sense and practicality..

Everyone regardless of extroversion or introversion, has a handful or say roomful of people whom they consider very very important..those who if are not present on any occasion or fest will be occupying your head..those whose absense or sudden hanging on call could make you feel uneasy..they whom you can't see crying or in pain..their words matters a lot..their demands are your orders..their happiness is your ATP..

You can't think your life complete without them..though everyone..deep in heart is aware of the fact that life goes on..with people coming and going..but when we face or even had a thought of losing our loved one..we want to escape from reality..sometimes we wish to never had met them and the other moment we wish to accompany them (though it sound childish but at that particular moment one truly thinks the same)..

A single call can drop your heart in a minute..an undue cry can upset your days..a shocking news can shake your ground..being strong for yourselves and others is only option left..

We can't escape the ultimate truth of mortality but what at present everyone can practice is to cherish every moment with them, love them and never hurt them.

Stay Happy!

H̤o̤w̤c̤o̤m̤e̤!̤ d̤i̤s̤t̤a̤n̤c̤e̤s̤?̤

Decision of being selfish can actually make ones life happier..you know what! when you keep on thinking how would the other person think or if you hurt them or not..you are gonna end up with pain..emotional pain coz you are keeping others and their emotions ahead of yours..

You know, i believe that trust if once broken can never reverse to its same way that it was in..the same goes with that of the string present between our hearts that once if broken can only join with a knot..unlike the same smooth thread..the more you hurt someone the more the string weakens..it doesn't broke in a single quarrel or hurtful action..it breaks when after numerous quarrels..a same intensity' quarrel again appears and break that most weakened string..

"Koi aapko bura ek dum nahi lgne lgta..vo bura lgta hai dheere dheere..chhote chhote kaamo se jo aapko hurt krte hai..aur phir aik time essa aata hai ki hurt krne wala insaan kuch bhi bolta rahe..kuch bhi krta rahe, aapko farak nahi pdta kyuki usske aur aapke bich ki dori bahut pehle hi tuut chuki hoti hai..usne aapko itna hurt kr diya hota hai ki ab aap unse hurt hi nahi hote blki unse itne duur ho jate ho ki phir kabhi uneh utni power nahi dete ki woh aapko hurt kr ske..kabhi nahi"..

I don't know why am I writing this..but believe me this is not for me..this is from me..i write what i believe..and whatsoever i believe is always constant no matter who the subject is..

STAY HAPPY!!

H̤e̤a̤d̤ a̤n̤d̤ H̤e̤a̤r̤t̤

 

It is said that both Heart and Head is needed for a smooth life..

People believe that listening to head would encourage their career..while tunning with your heart would make you a happy family..professional and personal life goes hand-in-hand with head and heart..

Some do think that males are more career-oriented and they listen to their head..had good decision making skills and never let their emotions interfere their decisions..while girls are thought to be more sensible and emotional and would wholly use their heart for whatever they indulge themselves in..

But you know what?..the deep yet unspoken truth is that males prefer both head and heart for making decision or heading life..it's only that their emotions are never taken with that much care as females around them..they are always in search of honest friend but fortunately, they end up having loving partner..they are in need of someone who can listen to them without judging them unlike society..when this wonderful appears..hearing them, fooling around and being their for them making themselves grow, he never let go..

And girls NOW-A-DAYS, are more career oriented..it's not like they don't make their heart feelings work..but rather they gave more power to their heads so that they could focus and make a change..females are always expected to be more sophisticated than males from childhood..as a result they always want someone whom they can trust upon and act around carelessly without any expectation to work upon..they want love but unlike males they end up having friends..expectations in those glittering eyes keeps on increasing as their partner supports them and someday they realises this after the past one become a friend or stranger someway..

It's not like that I am being on any of the sides..the point is that I spent around 10 minutes today with myself..god knows for what particular reason, I just wanted to write something from my heart and here I dragged my drawer out off my desk, switched it on and started whatsoever appeared on surface..
Though i had read it once after writing..but then also if any of my readers gets offended or affected by anyway coz of my words..forgive me!!

Hope all my readers be happy and keep smiling..be stronger for themselves and for others around them..
STAY BLESSED!!

Selfish World..

Human are known to be the wisest of Kingdom Animalia rather wisest on the mother Earth yet sometimes other animals(beyond some abnormal Homo sapiens) prove themselves to be more HUMAN.

On one side when a person get into an accident..the so-called wisest people present at the scene will get busy with selfies or photos of the latter..on other hand dogs like Zoom get martyred for saving people..

We orthodox want to have a son so that our generation could succeed and on other hand for a cow(pet) we want a baby girl so that she could grow into a cow in future and serve us..

We make our houses and let some rooms empty(without furniture and commodities) so that when our son will get marry the daughter-in-law would bring the latter in dowry..so goes with vehicle for the family..no matter how much the boy had studied or look like all we want is a girl to marry him, who must know all home-chores and bring lakhs of money with her..

When I got my 10th result..looking at the stats precisely there were only ten transgender students who passed successfully and the same goes with 12th standard when only twenty-nine transgender students passed..

No person ever wish to have a transgender and neither they wish to accept it..they are not made, they are born..they didn't wanted those syndrome themselves,they were made naturally..just because they can't be successors of their own or someone else' family they are abandoned just after their birth if born..

Though our world is trying best to cut off all types of differences..be it between genders or animals..yet there are many people who are still maintaining their orthodox thoughts and also succeeding these awful practices to their generation, thus society and culture.

Wearing a BEING HUMAN T-shirt or updating your photo, feeding stray does on facebook or instagram won't define you as a human..we had to rectify our thoughts and clean our mind and try to maintain equality in every respect..atleast to ourselves and those related to us.

-Bhupinder Kaur 

RESULTS

Hlo! result is out now..every student must have got their final marks till now..if they are good..Congratulations!🥳..Happy future ahead 🙂..and those who are not satisfied yet..Congratulations to them too..life had given you a second chance to prove yourself and to work hard again and enhance your innerself.

I know it well..how it feels when you doesn't get results accordingly..though you did a lot..you pushed higher..you cut your distractions..you avoided many and faced many too..at last it's heartbreaking if you don't get your desired results..may be it was to be..you don't get what you want..you get what you worked for..who knows if you have discovered your true potential till now or not..if you had reached your highest,if that is so..you have to accept it..if not now..you would accept it someday but that may be late..if you had truly worked hard this time..you can do the same again..life had given you a chance..despite everything being puzzled at the moment..you know deep inside that you are the same..your goal,your aim is still alive in your heart..better to dust yourself as soon and get set go for your second chance..what if you lose this precious seconds..minutes..hours..days..months in making the situation and mindset go smooth and regret afterwards..once you motivate yourself..be fast to act to next..don't get me wrong..I am and I can easily make your condition..I had been through the same situation last year and probably being going through too..I had also faced disappointments,rejections and FAILURE so it's not that easy for me too to pen it down..but doing to help those who were with me during my preparation days and for those who were not able to make it this time..i don't know if i would make it but can try atleast to relieve those from which they are going through.

Dear friends..you yourself know what time values..you had been through many tests,scores,ups and down during preparation..you must have seen sun after studying the entire night many often..you would have also compromised your sleep,caffeinated yourself..would have also cried late nights..fear of failure and tension for the next test scores would have been rised along the time..all these were with you..within you and if you look back those days..I think you must be somewhat disappointed by your own actions..because you had gone through them..now you are someone whose threshold would be something big and the next newbies going to appear..you can guess their conditions easily in their coming days..you would merely pass a smile or laugh when someone younger..aspirant would tell you "Chemistry nahi samagh aati..Kreb's cycle yaad hi nahi hoti..physics mai to formula bhul jata hu..Inorganic mai khub saare colors hai,sub mix ho jate hai..beats ke question mai add krna tha ya substract pta nahi chla" so on..

The very point is to start again..for how long is "self-pity" going to last..I know you would be in doubt if you would be able to make it after an year too but believe me you can..Okay! So here is a my tip #OPINION:

Agar aap ek fresher student ho,you know yourself that this is going to be my first attempt and your psychi is stable..and agar aap ek dropper ho to aapki preparation and experience dono hi ek fresher student se jyada hoga but then also if you are unable to score so that is only because of your psychi "which is not stable"..this is not a comment rather a fact and I am also a dropper,thus I can feel it..entire preparatory duration mai you are in a self doubt..surrounded with negativity and the SO-CALLED sayings of relatives and neighbours..you yourself allow people's to bother your mental and affect yourself..I know some of you would disagree because parents are too behaving as others..but believe me koi aur aapko bole usse aacha hai ki aapke apne parents bole-'far better'..we can't let people shut their mouth because their brains allow them to think that much only..but what we are able is to analyse once again..okay! you had done it..so start it..better not to study for marks or to prove yourself to someone else rather be your own competitor..study this time for your own wellness..making your concepts stronger and enriching your brains with more and precise info.

Hey! Let me tell you something..why not picking some of your wishes from your wishlist that was to be done somedayyyy and start doing them while preparing..I mean some habits or something that would let you become more productive along with studies..like you can start home workout,learning typing,making tricks(would help in studies),paper art,drawings and many things..this will be for you to get over studies for half an hour or one and would be better than listening to negative comments and demotivating yourself.

This is all from my side today!..very honestly I was to publish this one a week ago when results were not even out but somehow it delayed..you can guess! I hope this would have helped..you can also help others and put your ideas in the comment box.

STAY CALM..TRY TO BE POSITIVE!!

Behave well for your selfless teachers 👩🏻‍🏫👨🏻‍🏫

Hlo everybody!..good to see you..i am here to approach a topic which is least bothered by people now-a-days..especially students.

According to some old bollywood movies and mythological books..mother is considered equivalent to GOD and teachers are considered ABOVE GOD..that means life dene wala se bada auda(rank), life ko bnakr dene wale ka hota hai..it was original mine 😎😅..the point is that teachers are those who work selfless and want their students to be a human. It was in late times..when guru(teachers) were given guru dakshina(donation) by their students once their session gets over or in near future..now-a-days it's unfortunate enough to say that very few students remain grateful and worth their teachers but teachers are the same for everyone..they know it well that their students are merely going to call,message or even ask them if they are fine or not, after two or more years of their teaching..they have no blood relation or they won't have any financial aid from those whom they are teaching now but then also they would prefer making them learn for the time they are theirs.

In recent years, I had been through many experiences where students would either try to be oversmart and try to copy-paste their so-called knowledge before teacher or would act so selfish that the teacher would compromise at last without acting cruel to those immature ones..picking out faults in their teaching style,using abuse,naming them with bad words,arguing with them and disrespecting them..these all are those which some students do..don't know why..what if your mother or father also get the treatment from those who would have not even born when they would have completed their primary or secondary😒..i guess they would have never respected anyone ever or would have some psycological issue..it's just that better to start behaving good not only to your teachers but to everyone and that is what they wish too..one more, backbiting reflects your persona😏..rather putting efforts in thinking ill for teachers focus on well being.

Here I am not to point out students rather i just want to convey the very point..some students being disgraceful towards their  teachers which not only hurt their teacher's feeling but also way themselves to being inhuman..which as a whole contributes to a ill-mannered youth in which I and the good ones are also counted..by 'good ones' i mean those who know their limits and have that much control on their actions which can never leads to disgrace anyone.

This is all for this blog😊

STAY HUMBLE,STAY POLITE.

Southern Command Boys Hostel

Hi!..it's been a month I am back to home..I miss my hostel,teachers and friends..scrolling over all the videoes and photoes clicked back then..remembering all those festivals celebrated together and results week after week..we all had emerged beautifully..no matter what our results are going to be..we(CSRL 1st batch) had lived precious moments of our life together with all ups and downs,masti and much more.

Though buildings are non-lived but when you leave any place..it appears to be important,even the building,the trees,sky and moon..nature..here i am to feel it again..to be there,where i had been for about nine months ☺️.

The best part of our hostel was..it was green😄..i mean..trees,flowers and palms..i remember when we(me and friends) were waiting for our zoology teacher in our compound area and i was sitting on that..what you say..okay..leave it..we all were conversing what would a person think if he sees our campus from outside..he must be wandering that..there are THE prodigies staying here who are preparing for NEET and we all laughed because we only knew what are standards were back then😅..we were also amazed by the fact that we live in a campus which is very beautiful,perfect for getting clicked🙂..as soon as sir came..we went in..though we were asked,what were we doing there and i foolishly replied "esse hi baitthi thi".. i regretted afterward😂.

In the above video,compound area can be seen..this video is shot by cameragirl Nutan Bala 🐻..boy in the video is Vikas (Chhota Bheem)#Efforts 😂..it must be between five to six in the morning and these two night owls after studying were out for walk.

This was when it rained for the first time in Pune..it must be 1st or 2nd of December(Sanjot and Geethu,Pune's local ones said it was " bin mausam baarish")..me and nonu🐼,one of my friend were sitting in my room..we were studying🙈..okay! we were making notes with Arijit Singh's voice with us..scchi mazza hi aa gya sochkr hi😉..

Schi and Ache wali baarish.

The above one covers way to our class from the end of girls corridor..i mean our campus was set such that there was six rooms in one side of the main building(main building is one in which we have our classes daily and our dining hall)..and the other side of main building were the eighteen rooms..i think i am right!..in our batch we were 12 boys with 32 girls..and boys resides in six rooms and girls in the other siders.

This video covers our classroom,dining hall(a bit) and TT hall(it was our area to study especially in nights),water point which became essential(special*) for some students till our session ended😜,next to the water cooler is the kitchen of our hostel and on the other side is the boys dorm..for this video,we have again thank our camera girl 🐻..the video is shooted when we all left the hostel after our exam and she,🐻 was there with her family and left after we all almost reached of home.

This place is where we studied,we celebrated festivals(Lohri,Holi,Gurupurab,Basant panchami,Navratri,Shiv ratri,Ramadan and many more) and many birthdays..starting from 2nd of december to 15th of july,we pushed our limits and evolved as a better one..for me..i had learnt to smile,laugh,make friends..i had faced fears,insecurities,failures..and had also learnt to overcome these all and try again..helping others..gaining their oponions and improving myself too,i truly had a good time..if you had been ever in any hostel,make sure to comment down in the comment box..how you evolved🙂.

*Special THANKS to Ms. NUTAN BALA#🐻.

Bouquet bhi de diya hmne..special thanksss 😉

This is all about this blog..make sure to share,comment and like..youtube wala copy kr diya 😅😂.

STAY HAPPY AND BLESSED.

result bhi aane wala hai 😢🙈..bye.

A new habit: Tratak Kriya

Hi everyone!.. this is your blogger friend..Bhupinder Kaur😎..you must be feeling why am i giving this introduction today..becaaause i had completed 21 days with the habit that I updated on 1st of this month 🥳..that means now this habit will last longer..acchi acchi feeling aari hai..as if kuch to kiya😅.

By the way,I watched "Dasvi" 😌..okay! I agree it's not the latest one but recent one i suppose..it's a good movie #OPONION🤭..Abhishek Bacchan-Yami Gautam- Nimrat Kaur all the three lead actors had played well..i mean me as audience want a movie which is based on something real and have a social message🙂..but yes it is also helpful for us and our future bros and sis going to appear in THE BOARD Examination of class 10th because it can make a ordinary man think how hard is it to study🙈 especially HINDI and HISTORY..my weak subjects😒.

Here I am to start something new..i mean 2nd habit that is..tratak kriya or tratak aasana..i did it today and felt it..i mean it's nice🙂..Being very honest, the blog of 1st August was read by many but the commitment was from only two readers..so this time i won't CONVINCE you to practice this kriya but you yourself will do it if you try it once😏..this aasana is especially for those you have to work on screens or for those who have a long screentime..what you have to do is pretty simple just like..low investment mein bdi bachat😁..i know it was..

*Take a diya..yes Diwali wala diya and lighten it up..there is no compulsion of using ghee..i mean i said to my mother to get me ghee to light up the diya..but somehow i managed getting oil after a lot of..you know😢.

*Place the diya somewhere so that it could appear at the level of your eyes if you sit comfortably.

*You have to sit in a room where no lights on..i mean dark room and no lights disturb you from anywhere..simply look at the flame of the diya without blinking..i know rona aayega, roo lena but rukna mat kyuki dar ke aage jeet hai 😂..sorry! means you have to continue it..or do it in many steps like for one minute focusing then closing your eyes..rubbing your hands and placing them on your eyes and then again start for next one minute focus and so on.

*The important one is to place your hands over your eyes (after closing them) after completion.

If you wanna see,how it goes like..refer to the link below:

https://youtu.be/gzz37U-w_GM

Benefits:

*Cleans your eyes and improve your eyesight and vision.

*Improve Concentration and memory.

*Enhances willpower,self-confidence and patience.

*Calms the mind, provide inner peace and silence.

*Good for sleep related problems and headaches like migrane,insomnia,nightmares,etc.

So here we come to the end of this blog..I am going to practice this daily from now afterall I am also a 🤓 and want an improved eyesight..next blog could be an important place..comment down which one you want..an unseen temple or HOSTEL.

STAY HAPPY

STAY HEALTHY.

Not every life cost the same..but why?

Hey there! what do you do?..you know what..kya aapko pta hai😁..Last night,one of my neighbour ordered some stuff from the well known app swiggy..obviously something edible..after about an hour,she came out of her house and threw that same.."FOOD" to the newly born puppies and their mother,of our locality..from 'newly born' i mean about two weeks..i was really curious how could she, because we all know how inflation attacks😅..this can be justified once you use these apps yourself🤭..today in the morning,she the same one who threw the food away was flaunting off💁🏻‍♀️about her last night food..you know what she said-"yesterday,my son ordered a proper plate of food from swiggy" all the ladies standing near her was praising her son but she continued then.."but my husband asked us not to eat anything of all those, when he came back from work..you know he said that the food would be highly spicy and may cause some problem to us all"..guys next she said🤭.."he is very concerned of us all..we eat very light food you see.."😜then she started boasting all her branded eatables from flour to refind and the other women were listening and boasting theirs too😂.

Hey please don't think unnecessary..i was not noticing her 🙈..i mean yes, i noticed..but it was unintentional..at night i was closing the main gate so she came in the view but in the morning..when the vegetable vendor came..i did notice 🙈😁..okay! let's come to the point..she next said something which i didn't like..very honestly, she said,"then i was left with no other option than throwing it away to those puppies or else my kids would eat it and would get some issues."she completed and then again the ladies supported her..i mean they all agreed..but the point is that the lady was concerned of her own kids but not for those little ones who came into existence two weeks ago 'only'.

"Iss duniya mein sbse bada yodha maa hoti hai"🙂 a truly beautiful dialogue of one of my favourite movies KGF..it's true..be it any animal..mammals.."mother is MOTHER"..it's not about a dog or a human,what matters is LIFE..you see when someone study for being a veternary doctor..he or she too spend five or more years in studying just like other doctors..i mean for human..for him too saving life is the only goal..it's true that we the mammals with the most complex and devloped brain and body rules the Earth but we can't ignore the other species.

I know we can't change the entire world or the stubborn humans with their own oponions and actions but atleast feel sympathy and empathy on our own level toward those who are recessive in biological terms,i mean population..the world never changes with one's effort..many one's join together for years and years and then becomes a revolution..oh lord..i went too far😁😄..point is we should respect animals..do you feel the same or do you agree for the same?

Summing up for today!

Happy day!!

Do comment.

Lehenga-The hit one 😂🤣

 Hi! everyone,gooooood evening..today the day was so..so..but evening was..after explaining "equations of motion" to my siblings..my sister switched to 9XM and unfortunately "lehenga" song was upcoming and what happened next 😒..no one in our family want this to happen..she started dancing💃🏻 and the moment the song ends..she switched off the television and started it again on mobile phone with wearing her "lehenga"..and then the entire house has to just tell her that her each step was perfect asap so that she could stop the song and do anything 😖..kan taras jate hai kuch aur sunne ke liye..but madam hai ki, jab tak puree gaane pe perfect dance nahi ho jata..fir se play krti rhengi.

You know what the point is! the song, one  that released before this song was "prada" which took a lot of ears toward Jass Manak's voice and then comes "lehenga" which gasped all types of people..especially girls of every age..this hit one was all over for that month and till date a number of reels and heels can make sound..this song was both "reel-able" and "feel-able"..honestly, pehle wala word exist karta hai and dusre wala abhi abhi bna diya..😅

This is a major difference between me and her..i mean when we both get ready for some function or festival..she would have lehengas-skirts-jeans with tops and heels and all and I would be wearing loose-fitted,shirt or t-shirt, trousers and shoes..Okay!..okay!..the point is that we are two girls in the same house with same and almost same 'sanskar' but then also we are different..nit only in clothes but in many other things like choosing toys(cars vs barbies),hobbies(reading-writing vs dancing-travelling),friends(some vs many)....and many..but you know what we are special in our own way..if i try to become her or she try to become me..our family will 😂.

So this blog for those who categorise girls or females in their so-called trending or unfortunate mind..not trying to being feminist with my words but yes..getting to point that some girls actually want to..people classify girls in many ways based on their traits and sooner or later these become a huge bubble which explodes on many girls.."ehh..she is very arrogant that is why she talks less.."Oh lord! such a chatterbox,can't stay for a minute"..She is always with boys one after the other,is she.....?.."She is so fat or she is so skinny".."so dark to so light..so bubbly to so shy"..people are going to point out each time and at every single stage of life and these would also become "butter" once one achieve something worthy..they will be always there..but point that matters is how one as a female finds herself..women is the most beautiful creation of god..and categorising her by your own criterias is almost a sin and remember we Indians worship NARI.

So dear girls,raise your chin up,stand erect and focus on your goals..no matter what people want you to be..be what you want..do what you want..smaller steps to a big destined life.."Small milate jao large bnate jao..blender pride 😂"

This blog is late, much late..sorry guyz..i was restricted to use phone or any other screen for almost last 10 days but i use to see TV honestly🙈..i got a subconjunctival hemorrhage in right eye which my mother find due to excessive screen time and that was true😅..now i am fine and completed writing today..next blog is going to be bit..let's not reveal 😂.

That's all for today..goodbye

See you tomorrow!

Do comment.

A Decision made-Brushing 😊😂

 I called my very friend today..can't mention her name or else..leave it!..I asked her why she didn't reply me yesterday..because i barely calls someone very honestly..the reply was not that great..she went to a dentist the other day and before that too almost four days..altogether she spent around rupees 4,000..i am including petrol of their car burnt too but not the time invested though time is money..the dentist took rupees 1500 only as his fees but you know recent petrol rates were around rupees 96 per litre to 105 per litre in different cities and states..INFLATION..you know!

I immediately rinse my mouth with Listerine, yup i know it's a mouthwash but I did it because I can't even think of spending 4000 that too on my teeth..not exaggerating but we people never focus on our teeth though the very first ATP spending work in morning after waking up is Brushing only but we somewhere had never focussed how proper we do it and should do it..thus I decided to discuss with you how to brush properly..something very common..but atleast mera bhi revise ho jayega..Let's make the very first day of August fruit-full and hope to make the entire month with you guys..

Let's start!

Disclaimer: if you want to see how are these steps going to work make sure to watch videoes by provided links and for all those who are under 8 years(others too),if any something else is also there..

https://youtu.be/Z_7bBppIINc

https://youtu.be/lnHIgRhJctc

*Brushing require minimum 2 minutes..that mean you don't have to rush rather wake up two minutes early if you think that you would get late.

*Use a small to medium sized toothbrush with flouride toothpaste.Now..you may ask, which toothbrush?..a very common question..and important one too because it would be better than choosing any toothbrush that too according to your favourite color..yes! believe me people do this.

If you talk about best..there will be many companies telling you and you yourself would definitely have listened about it..you know some people talk about electric brushes-rechargable one,are the best..yes they are..the most famous one is Philips Sonicare DiamondClean Smart 9300 Rechargable electric toothbrush..but you know what..any brush with comfortable grip and soft bristle will work..why only soft, because you don't have to fight with your teeth..you must be slow and steady.

*Don't roam around here and there with brush in mouth..believe me you would look next to a cartoon and others even don't feel good, looking at you.

*Now, how to hold toothbrush..here it is👇🏻

*Next the question appears..should we wet our brush before brushing..answer is pretty simple..it is more a matter of preference and not significantly change the success of brushing..success..haha!

*Now put some toothpaste over bristles..now which toothpaste..any toothpaste containing less than 0.15percent of mass by mass Flouride or 300 mg, heavy metals not more than 20mg/kg and many others, you can refer the link provided below:

https://www.saiglobal.com/PDFTemp/Previews/OSH/ISO/ISO_12345_06-02/T019546E.PDF

*Make sure to tilt you toothbrush so that bristles are 45 degrees to the gum-line and move the brush in a circular motion on each tooth.

*Next move brush over each tooth up and down over outer surface of the tooth.

*Now brush the biting surface of both top and bottom..to clean the inside surface of the front teeth, tilt the brush vertically upward and move the brush up to down on the surface for few seconds..similar goes with the down-inside surface, tilt the brush vertically downwards and move the brush down to up.

*Finally,the last step work on your tongue and split out any remaining toothpaste.

**Don't rinse your mouth immediately after brushing as it will wash away the concentrated flouride and reduce its preventive effects.

I KNOW MAXIMUM POPULATION ONLY PREFER DOING BRUSH AFTER BED..BUT BEFORE BED IS IMPORTANT TOO SO THAT pH COULD BE MAINTAINED.

Believe me..if you start today and do the same for almost 21..you know what i wanna pen..i know it's a habit already but improving is humans need and you know Change is the only constant..i know these went too far but convincing do require some efforts..hehe!

Okay then,I had started this very new rather updated habit from today..if you too want to improve yourself with me and start this one with me..make sure to comment your "commitment" in comment box.

This is all for today and i think this became an educational blog..nevermind right?

See you Tomorrow!

BE HEALTHY!

BRUSH 😂