The more you like it, the easier you lose it.

The more you like it, 

                                  the easier you lose it. 

Our lives are full of desires and dreams. Everyone wants something or another, some day or in the near future. Some are waiting to make their dreams come true, while some have left it all to destiny or time.

No matter how big or small our dreams appear, it feels so good when they come true. I remember how exactly I felt when I got my 10th board results, and I remember that feeling also when I had Pav Bhaji for the first time.

Well, the moment when I saw the rank list and I lost a government medical seat by just a rank, I remember that feeling too. No! I am not dwelling on the past. I just want to emphasize that life has its ups and downs, but there is something to understand while achieving your dreams and desires, which is what the blog post is about.

No doubt, while working or manifesting your desires, one has to believe in the process and practice patience, but it is also true that once the process ends, one must let it go.

Liking and believing are two different feelings. Believing feels peaceful and results in peace most of the time, but liking feels tempting and might result in hurting oneself.

When you believe, you believe in yourself, something, or someone, but when you like, you simply like someone or something by putting yourself at second priority, and that most of the time changes into a crazy feeling where you can act like you are obsessed by that something or someone, and when obsession makes noise, you lose yourself and everything that you like.

The more and more you start liking someone or something, the more and more you increase the chances of losing it early and easily.

Life isn't for that one person or thing that you are crazily liking or obsessed with; it's way more than that. Ease it out! Because getting obsessed with it will make you lose it faster, and you might lose your true self too.

- Bhupinder Kaur