Day 14 Participation matters..

 Hi there! Today, I got the results of the online event, which Pratilipi came up with, namely 'Tales of Love' under which one had to write atleast 7 short stories on different shades of Love..

I did participate in it..I did get many ratings and reviews..I was happy..even now I am happy..although I haven't won any prize but still I participated and that is what made me try writing short stories too, and party reviews I got I was overwhelmed as I found that I can write short stories to and can explore Romance genre also..

I wish to win someday, at any of the online event of pratilipi or any other writing competition as that will be an embracing milestone in my writing timeline..

I had already taken the '50 part challenge'..hope I would complete it..I had written a few chapters but haven't typed them for my readers on app to read..I am too lazy to do that..well this one was to embrace my participation..although I didn't win any prize but I didn't even lose anything. 

Maybe someday in future, I would win..finger crossed 😊.

Day 13 Priorities changes us a lot..

 Hello dear readers, hope you would have enjoyed India Pakistan, well..I'm not watching it..

There was a day in past when we got India at the finals against Australia and I was so desperate for scores that without having electricity at home, I was sitting in the balcony in the chilling wind flowing and exclaiming at just the scorecard that was appearing LIVE on my father's phone's screen..

And today, I haven't watched cricket for years, you know..like sitting for straight 4-5 hours for each ball and runs and Ofcourse listening a lot from parents to turn TV off..

In class IXth, a teacher of mine, she hasn't been a Reason to remember her smiling but its fine she was a teacher..she said, "Give four years of your life to study and study only and then your life would be set" I took it so seriously that I got too much focused on studies and yeah I left watching cricket, watching my favourite WWE but something was great that John Cena left it along with me..haha! I'm being selfish! 

Its time and decisions which make us change sometimes a bit and sometimes a lot..I really miss that time but at the same time now that I am more mature I feel like it was okay that, that time I gave so much of time watching cricket and now I respect time..

I am not saying that watching cricket is waste of time but yeah you know mindset changes and that is because of our priorities.. sometime we love it..sometimes we just regret upon it but I don't regret..I just miss those times.

Day 12 I made her smile 😊

 Hello dear readers! Hope you are doing great..Today I went to a children park, yeah I just went to roam around and feel the blissful smiles and chuckles too..

There were many children playing there, even their were couples and parents too. I saw a girl, maybe 6 or 7 years old, she was sitting on the see-saw alone and looking at others playing..

I couldn't help finding myself in her as I was and am, also alone but keep smiling looking at others. I asked her, if she needs company at the see-saw and she nodded..

Ofcourse, I was so heavy to be her company or the see-saw partner, so I used my arms. When I made her fly up alongwith me pushing my end down, she smiled and laughed wholeheartedly..I liked it..

I asked her, if she had any sibling, so she replied nodding and added that her brother's weight can't balance her, he just always let her fly up and he went home..

I was happy making her feel good, although after about 20 or 25 pushes, I missed my dumbbells and kettlebell, but she was smiling so I continued..

I love helping people, yeah, its true that I don't like kids that much but there can be exceptions..no, she was not that pretty but when she smiled out loud after getting on the top, I liked her..

It feels good when you help Some body or be the reason for someone's smile, I usually become one and for that I'm highly grateful for myself being good enough.. 

Day 11 Guest iin London! 😊

 Hi there! You know what, I haven't studied from last 4 days..I haven't written anything from last 4 days and I don't know, whats going on..sounds crazy, no!?

But I don't know why, I don't any regrets..Really shame full, no? I saw movies..on youtube..haha! And yeah one of them were, Kartik Aryan and Kriti Kharbanda's  'Guest iin London'..

They movie was really good, and having Paresh Rawal as one of the major chara fer garnished it..the movie based on desi Indian relatives coming to London making Kartik (actor), their long distance son and stayed with him and her fake wife, Kriti (actress) whom he married for citizenship, and yeah one day after getting annoyed, left them at some unknown place to get rid of them..

Heyyy, this is not a movie review, its just that, in the last 30 minutes, all what the movie took turn and put forward something really different and the acting that Tanvi Azmi presented made me remember it..

And yes, it would sound funny for those who know me, but I too got carried with emotions, I too cried but just for a minute..so unusual, no? I seldom cry..one of my friend DMS wish is to see me crying, haha! But sometimes when we get attached to something we get carried away and that just happened with me too..

Why I actually wanted to write it as a blog was to remember the planning and sequences of how the writer would have managed it to make it a perfect comedy..romance..emotions..suspense..and breaking it piece by piece..

I do watch movies and think upon their morals and ways they, the writers ended the screenplay making us feel content..I don't know from when I got this type of insights but its weird or may be good.

Day 10 Starting doesn't take much. (Poem)

Starting doesn't take much..

Starting doesnt take much

It needs a mere touch

Till When are you going to avoid

When you yourself know about your heart being somewhat void..

Yes, you doubt the results

And are afraid of insults

Doing work is what must be your focus

Thats where lies the locus

All you need to do is to work and believe

And then leave your mind at relief..

You are here for yourself only

Help yourself and never get lonely

You know, you are your own boost

So why waiting for some host

Just take a breath deep in

Unlock the mind and peep in..

Even if you loose

It would be you, who you choose

Taking blame will make you strong

And then you will realise, that you weren't wrong..

Just some random words put together, hope they made you feel good..

Still in process of learning and discovering, what all I can do..

Stay Blessed!

Day 9 Hobby and Passion

Good evening everybody! Hope you are doing great..I am here to talk about two words which are often misused or used synonymously, just like lonely and alone..

Hobby is when you do something in your free time, you enjoy doing something and can even leave it if needed, its not your priority but a choice and you enjoy it..

While, passion is a goal..an aim for which you put efforts and hardwork, it becomes your priority without any issue, you can't think your life without doing that particular and you want to get better and best in it..no matter how long it takes or how many hardships you have to face..you never leave it..

Just like in my case, Exercising and mimicking RJs is my hobby while writing is my passion..I leave exercise and even skip it and if continue after months, its okay for me..but writing..I can't leave it and I work for getting better every day.

Day 8 Speak if its required!

 Have you ever done something for someone which would have overthrown your choices and priorities theirs just yo make them feel good..

In order to surprise someone or make them feel good, have you ever had or been doing something, putting all your efforts in, facing a lot of criticism and yeah, from the person only, whom you are doing it for..

It is really hurting when you like to do something but you didn't pursue it or do it just to make someone feel happy, even worse when they only criticize you..

It become necessary to tell them that you are doing for them as they really don't care and you just keep on hurting yourself..they should know that they must be grateful than being an evil spokes person..

I too am running and struggling for something for someone, and they only criticize me, but I never found courage to tell them that, its them for whom I am running after something..never did I stopped doing that work..nevermind, but thats not right! 

One must say it loud, if he/she is doing and facing stuffs too..not like me, mingling with all ungrateful people yet care for them..

Day 7 The next project! 😊

Ever wondered, what all happens after one dies? I had always being curious to know what happens after death and why we come to live if we have to die one day..since childhood, we get so many interpretations of why we were born and what happens after that like, 

* 'You were with God and then you came to Earth for sometime and then again leave to the almighty, once you are dead'

* 'You are here to explore what human life is about, how humans live..you were a cat or a horse sometime ago in the last life and after your death, you will again take birth as different animals and then become a human after ages, but you won't remember that'

*You are here with purpose to accomplish, once you complete your purpose god will be happy and then you will die one day and get a new life' and many more..

Some says the dead become angels..some say they becomes stars..some says they are always around us watching us keeping and helping us whenever needed.

When I started publishing at Wattpad, two years ago, my first story was, 'The Happy Girl' revolving around a girl named Alex and her family..The second one, which I started alongwith it was 'The Living Building'.. having two brothers in a house..people call it ghost house but it had many beautiful souls living in it..

Yeah, it attracted many eyes and I got my early following because of the plot and three chapters, I published but later, I stopped it..

My bad, I know, believe me.. it was not that I was not having ideas or didn't know the storyline and the set up but I wanted it to be grand and polish myself first and then continue with it..

Nevermind, I would definitely continue it, once I get some more readers and improvised writing skills, I won't let my story look like, written by any beginner..it must be good..

So yeah! After Death? I'm here with an announcement, okhay, it sounds as if I sm popular, haha! So, there is an ongoing 10-Part Series event on Pratilipi, in which I would be writing a short story, ofcourse having 10 parts atleast, having the same thought of 'what after death'..won't reveal much..just that, there will be souls and a story..

I do made a post to those who read me at the app, regarding this event..I mean, I didn't reveal this but do made a commitment that I would upload this 10-part Series, once I published 25 chapters of 'Sharma Verma'!

Yeah, it Backfired as this event will only accept enteries till last week of November, so I got about 30 more days to get 25 chapters published..but its okay! As soon as I got loyal eyes who read, I can write! 😊

Day 6 Review helps!

 Hi there! Today, I was really happy because of two things that happened. Firstly, when I checked my phone after waking up, early morning, okhay! I mean at 7 am..I was having a new follower at Pratilipi and secondly, I got thumbs up for the last two blog post I published by a published author, at one of the sites, I shared blog post at..

I was amazed and surprised too, when I found a review from an real published author. I found the above image under all the posts she made..ofcourse, she also want her and her grand father's books to get reads on amazon and was sharing there, but this is something everyone would agree with..

It really feels good..whenever someone reviews or rates my writing, I too feel so happy..everyone doing something, loves to get appreciated..its true, it take less than five minutes, sometimes more, to review someone's content, but it really helps..

The reader not only helps the author or writer to get how his or her audience is finding his content, but also helps him mentally, he is motivated to write more and yes, eager to improve himself in order to content his readers..

Even I can relate to this, I mean, like I'm no one compared to all those famous published authors, yet I feel the same..whenever there is a comment, which seldom is, hehe! I feel a different type of energy boost and happiness..

All in all, appreciating someone doing something and putting efforts make the person feel happy..one can be the reason for someone's smile and help them grow.

Day 5 That Day will be Ours 😊

 Good..uhm..morning/noon/evening/night! choose according to yourself, haha! Hope you are happy and smiling..you look better when you smile, just saying..yes, day before yesterday, I was stuck and today I published the next chapter of 'Sharma Verma'..😊

I was going through all those mock papers..chapter tests and part tests. I wanted to sort those papers which included questions from those chapters which are going to come in my next test..I attempted all those papers, two years back when I was in Pune..

I was both amazed and disheartened, finding my 'scores, smileys, correct, incorrect, not attempted' on them..Amazed to see how well I scored and attempted them and disheartened with the memories which came to knock my mind with them..

The days and nights, I put in working hard and all the hostel mates, the way we all studies, but very few reached their goal..many are still struggling with the same books, putting more hardwork and still hoping for the best, including me.

We all were 'The Selected Super-50' from our country, but that super is gone somewhere, but yeah! we all are still working, haven't gave up and even won't..

When you struggle, you understand others too..those who are running alongside you, struggling to get better and reach their goal..we all, hostel mates saw each other hustling and believe that one day, the world will be ours..when we will live our aim and those which we dream..

That day will be ours, and yes, always remember what Lieutenant Colonel Anup Kumar Saxena, F/O Indian Airforce Officer Gunjan Sexana said, "FORTUNE NEVER ABANDON HARDWORK".

Day 4 Solitude is blissful..😊

 

Hey there! Ever wondered the difference between 'Alone' and 'Lonely'? A brisk difference which must be darkened so to get the exact meaning..we often use them synonymously, but they are different..Let's see how!

 

Alone is when, you are happy..you enjoy your own company..you find solitude and peace and thats your choice while Lonely is when you are sad because you are not with other people..you feel emotionally disconnected and you seek happiness..

Solitude is when you find your state blissful and loneliness is state when you find yourself miserable..you want someone to talk with even after being surrounded by a crowd..

Loneliness is when, you feel emotionally drained and want someone who is there, just for you..you couldn't find it okay, sitting alone and enjoying your own company while Solitude, is totally opposite..even if you don't have anyone around, you feel content and relaxed..

Everyone feels lonely at times in their lives but prolonged loneliness can cause one, serious mental issues including depression and anxiety..

Enjoying your own company comes with practice, yeah! People do practice solitude, by sitting alone, without phone and friends, and smiling, being with themselves and observing with their own eyes rather than just seeing what media or mates want one to see..

This whole globe has got so many creatures and then too if someone feels lonely, it won't be wrong for me to state that mankind is a shame then..remember many article starts with words, 'Human is a social animal...' and so on, because we are here for being 'WE'..

Yeah! Why should we care about a stranger, fine! But what about any of your family member is suffering, yes, it can be called 'suffering', from loneliness..we must have good relations among each other..

In the race of getting success and growth, we often leave important lives back, we become too busy that everything happens before us but we couldn't note it and the one who needs you, just sits back in hope that you will definitely talk to them one fine day..

All in all, we are born to be human, we must be connected with people and embrace the ones who are there with us.

-Bhupinder Kaur 

Day 3 Getting stuck while writing..is that okay?

 Hlo guyz! Hope you are doing good..I write everyday..I mean I try to..I had already found my way to get rid of negativity by forming my own world, with my own characters and I love that world of mine..where I'm the creator..

I was a beginner once, I think I'm now too, but there is a change, I have got few to ask me to write next..yeah! they are few, but they are..and I'm really grateful for that..

But today, I felt stuck..I do had my planning and character evolvement ready before I started writing one of my college-life based comedy novel, but putting in words and feeling it as a reader disappointed me..

I did write something new, instead of continuing the former one but haven't added anymore to my novel..I did get a follower today and she wanted me to continue the one which I got stuck on..

I felt like, I shouldn't dishearten her but whats going on, she don't know that..of course! I feel good when someone, who haven't seen me, never met me, want me to progress just by reading my words that too fictioness..

To stay in form, as I said, I did started something new, but won't let it cross my novel..I thought, instead of giving up and feeling stuck, I must move on for a bit of time and then continue with all new inspiration..

If you do write, you can relate to what I'm saying, no!

Its okay to feel stuck at times, be it your life or writing, what matters is how you charge yourself up again for the same which made you feel stuck..instead of sitting idle or keeping focus on the hurdle, ignore it for sometime and then come again with a bit of new experience and mindset..re chatting yourself is must at times..

I'm sure, I'll never dishearten any of my reader and gear up again in few days with my novel..even if there is one reader waiting..but there IS..and that's what someone who write wants..😊

The photo above, the one I added is of Shizuka from a ghibli movie, 'Whispers of the Heart'..one of my hostel mate adviced me to watch whenever I manage to, as it was based on a emerging writer..and I did that..

Day 2 Its all in our hands.

 Ever thought of growing up what you are today? Ever thought that you would be like what you are now..the way you behave..the way you talk and walk..we just grew up, no? 

But yeah! At every important milestone of our lifeline, we made some decisions..decisions which were worth it, worth mentioning and worth remembering..

Every time we face something new to decide upon, we act differently..sometimes, we just decided with all assurance within seconds and sometimes we get confused, we find it difficult..

No matter what happens then or now, all we must keep in mind is that one decision, be it a minor one or a major one, it will affect us for a long time..

It matters..how and where the single decision would take you..makes a big difference..so its all in our hands.

-Bhupinder Kaur

Day 1 Won't add anything to the 'Never Happening Wish List' 😊

 Hi there! Yesterday just after the post, I stepped out of the faded room of mine, honestly, its like after 2 months since we shifted to a new place..people do exist, haha!!

There was a couple preparing for their kid's birthday party and other kids was whispering to each other..roaming around for what they were going to gift the birthday girl with..when are they going to get in, is mamma going to accompany them, will they get the balloons and all those curious smiles were lovely..

For a moment, I wished to join those strangers but you know, I wasn't invited..they didn't even know me..I remembered when we were asked to go to someone's party, I would always be the one to refuse the very first among my siblings and rather enjoy a movie at home or simply sleep..so boring!

And now when I am all grown up, I want to get into someone's party..dance and sing..irritate someone or do some nasty stuff and then get embarassed, we people, to act cool or sophisticated, actually miss all those things that normally kids do..and so was me..

You know, going to someone else's home and then pick something from the serving had been my dream, although I hate when any kid do that but that's just a wish..acting stubborn before someone to get something done just like those mama's boy and daddy's girls do..getting hurt and cry aloud to get attention, I never did that all..I wasn't made to..but yeah, I don't even like that..

But nevermind, its gone already but we can make amends anytime, no! Living in the moment is what everyone advise and we too know well, but just for the sake of the way we will be seen by people around us, we opt to act good, suppressing our happiness..

Sometimes parents too make their kids grow up so fine and make them behave so well, especially, the strict parents (just like ours)  that the kids someday in future wish to have some memories of them being idiot..although their etiquettes are there deep in their blood, but the wish is wish..

Lets keep it simple, we know well..no one is going to remember us..no one is going to keep a note for what we did on this day or that minute and no one is going to ever get the time back for us..so better to do whatever you want to..

The thing you would suppress today would add to your 'never happening wish list' and asusual you will be boring and all we need is to live once and that too fully..at tue end we can't count our never sparkled stars..

Daily Journaling 😊

 

Hlo readers! I hope you are doing good. Well, after a long long break, I had again picked up a writing challenge and that will be pretty cool..DAILY PUBLIC JOURNALING! 

Yes, I know journals are meant to be private, but you know what? I had been doing it from very long and again this time, Just like the '10-Days Writing Challenge' I took writing Letters on some prompts from a random picture, I got from search..I want this time again to practice a bit of consistency..atleast in writing my stuffs..

Yeah, so public journaling would be fun, It would be like daily vlogging, not with a camera but a pen..oh! Typing keyboard of my smartphone..

Just because, I made it public, it became special so yeah, I would be consistent in that way..would focus more on needful and ofcourse, I seldom lie so just for writing truth at the end of the day, I would be doing necessary, no!

Someone suggested me to start journaling to relief stress..I do it but not on daily basis..but now I think I will be regular..And can also grow my blog..

So I think, this would help me or someone around the world as I write social..I write observing..I write nature..I write motivation..I write inspiration and ofcourse, I too write Fiction!!

STAY TUNED!!

-Bhupinder Kaur